Experiencing microaggressions can be both hurtful and frustrating, given the fact they can be conveyed unintentionally too.
If you feel comfortable, consider addressing the person either at that moment or afterward- if you feel safe to do so. You can ask them to clarify their behaviour and explain how it affected you, requesting that they avoid repeating it in the future.
What has happened is not your fault as you should not have been placed in that situation, and you're not alone. You can access specialist support, if and whenever you feel ready.
University Support
- Speak to advisor. A specialist advisor will get in touch to discuss your options with you and will be able to offer appropriate practical and emotional support tailored to your circumstances. This is confidential and does not instigate any kind of formal reporting process.
- Counselling Service. The Counselling Service offers confidential support to students and staff.